Sex with Family Members

Today I recieved the following.

"I have had sex with my mother. this has happened to me and my mom wants more and more. As we are both adults, what do you think of this situation? "

My response -

To be honest, I think this is a situation that probably shouldn't be going on. It is illegal in most areas. You say that your mother keeps wanting more... But do you want more?

I think if you both want it, you really do need to kind of sit down and talk. If you're not going to stop regardless of legality/morality and your mother is still fertile, you need to talk about ways of protection, etc. You need to talk about how it will effect your mother-son relationship, and how you will go about it legally.

If you don't want this, it needs to STOP. It will jeapordise any other sort of relationship you have with her, much as it would if this were happening with a best friend. Also, the chances are somebody WILL find out and you WILL be reported to the police. And nobody wants that to happen.

So overall? This is YOUR decision, but you need to think about putting a stop to this. Think about why you're doing it. Is it for her or your sexual pleasure, or has it become habit? This really is something that you should stop.